That Date

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So you pick someone from the gallery and say you chance going on a date. If you like them and the feeling is mutual, you see them again. How does this affect your capacity to write? Do you agree with the person not to divulge details of your personal liaison? There are big trust issues and no contract to this. What if it doesn’t work out further down the line – no reason why it should … Does it become an online saga like a public flogging like those TV reality shows? The real issue of course would be how it would affect your creative writing and ability to be onsite. We’re adults and it all comes with the web intelligence course these days. What would you be gambling for? Love, creativity or both? M&F friendship, M&F relationship and the whole equation and span of human nature. Would it really be worth it? I mean, taking into account the juxtaposition of the two sites making all the difference or does it? Twice the loneliness factor for a taste of social engineering.

Alternatively, if you take the time to even make any such arrangement … What if it just all slowly developed over time? Wouldn’t that be better? There being no pressure I mean, like with a simple friendship without benefits that is.

Undecided

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oldpesky | January 12, 2012 - 09:48

Whatever happens don't let anyone stop you writing about what you want. If you, or anyone else for that matter, wants to divulge details of a personal liason then it would probably be best to at least change the names to save the site from libel. Best of luck.

Verdana | January 13, 2012 - 14:46

Thanks for that oldpesky. I was just exploring issues of that nature on topic. Obviously name changes etc would certainly be necessary.

Denzella | June 26, 2012 - 22:53

Hello again,

Not sure about this one as it seemed to be more an exploration of whether it was a good idea to have an on line relationship. However I see we concur with the last word of this piece.

Moya

Verdana | June 26, 2012 - 23:37

Definitely an explorative venture Moya which I finally decided to opt out of.

denni1 | November 12, 2012 - 19:53

You should give it a whirl, girl ..

Verdana | November 13, 2012 - 01:28

Love's given me a lot of whirls denni1. I'm still dizzy ...