childishness . . .

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childishness . . .

. . . seems to be under attack in some of these threads.

I say you can't have enough of it.

Maybe you don't need it when you're arranging a mortgage or going for a job interview or seeing the surgeon about your erectile dysfunction problems, but almost everywhere else it's an important part of life.

Long before I was a grown up I was a child. So the childish part of me is much older and more deeply rooted than the adult part.

Being grown up usually means being stiff and boring. Grown ups are always starting wars and listening to opera. Who wants to do that kind of stuff.

What's more, whenever I read anything about how to be more creative one of the top tips is always, 'rediscover your inner child'.

For goodness' sake, as poets and writers we're supposed to be creative, so we need to max out on childishness.

Maybe this is the place where we can start doing that. Let this thread be a celebration of all things childish.

Nur-nur na nur-nur! *farts a good Bronx cheer* That benefit guy's a right cheesy ole winkle.
Yep! You're right...for a creative site...some very stuffy contributors to the forums. But you'll appreciate that it's only a minority. A minority of the 'old-skool' snarling dogs who appear to relentlessly guard the gates and put a lot of people off. There's a time and a place. Should see me at bo-bo's when the adult nappies come out :) I've been a lot more childish since my daughter was born. I sometimes have to remind myself not to point out the window and shout, "ooo! A horsey" when sharing a car with another adult. There's nothing more mind-teasing than the incomprehensible eagerly avowed - Dennett

~It's a maze for rats to try, it's a race for rats to die.~

Only place I TRY not to be childish is the forum, Bruce (sorry, mate - your name change sounds like saying the same thing with my teeth out!) I couldn't agree more with your contention, otherwise. Hope I don't sound TOO serious on these threads - perhaps I just treat them too seriously. One of the reasons I love working with special needs adults is I don't have to be too serious - and I find their company less intimidating than that of other adults. I hope I never lose the childishness in me. Haven't read a paper for nearly a year now. Still read comics, though. Thanks for the compliment, Sniper. And you're just a silly old pooh.
Sounds like you've achieved a healthy balance there Alan, and what a great job you have. My nephew is in the same line, so I know what a difference you guys can make and how rewarding it can be. As for being too serious, I'm as guilty of that as anyone, so my post was as much a note to myself as to anyone else.
Yes, it is a great job - if awfully paid. It's tremendously empowering to someone like me, who has very little self-confidence. The clients show nothing but unconditional respect. I think they like me 'cos I arse around such a lot with them. They bring out the Spike Milligan in me. Some of the other carers want them to behave more like 'proper adults'. I just let them do what they like best (within reason, of course) and find it brings out the best in THEM. One of the cerebral palsy guys has one great thing he can do: laugh. What makes him laugh most? Me dropping stuff, falling over, farting... It's a great two-way thing. Always come home with a smile on my face.
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