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Cost of things

I was reading in today's Metro about how much people spend on their children as a proportion of their salary.

Unsurprisingly the less one earns, the greater proportion spent on presents. At the bottom end, those on £100 a week spend about £66 per child (66%) and at the top end, those earning £1000 a week spend £131 which is only 13%

What really interested me though is that even those at the very bottom spend so much so I pulled out my calculator and worked out how much was spent on me one christmas (at today's prices). Fortunately most of the toys I got in 1981 are still around (Tiny Tears Classic at £19.99 today was my big present) and I have a good memory! It comes to approximately £45.

Now at risk of sounding like a grumpy old codger who moans that kids these days have never had it so good...kids these days have never had it so good.

I appreciate the point the article makes about how much more of a struggle it is for those who are poorer but the fact that they can spend £66 surely indicates that quality of life is much better than it was a generation ago?

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Having more doesn't mean a better quality of life. There is more to buy. And more expensive things. When I went to school it was just me. Now kids have mobile phones, iPods, designer clothes. I remember the first time I saw a digital watch. Wow! That was amazing...

 

That is true Drew. Even though my family was 'poorer' than many 'poor' families today in monetary terms, we had a better quality of life because we had freedom to play out on our bikes and large commons to roam on and lakes to take our dinghys on without paranoia that we might drown or get abducted and huge amounts of second hand books to lose oneself in. But I think 'poverty' today is more about social deprivation rather than lack of money. Kids have mobile phones, iPods and designer clothes but not having techno gadgets and having to wear Primark clothes is not really poverty. It is only now I am older that in hindsight I can see how poor we actually were. I didn't really notice it much at the time. jude "Cacoethes scribendi" http://www.judesworld.net

 

Digital watch! Digital watch! Luxury! When I were a lad we used to 'ave to tell the time by the sun.

 

I knew that the technological age had dawned when my sister got a hand-held Space Invaders. Before that it was a hoop and spinning top for entertainment... jude

 

"But I think 'poverty' today is more about social deprivation rather than lack of money. Kids have mobile phones, iPods and designer clothes but not having techno gadgets and having to wear Primark clothes is not really poverty." Well, relative poverty is a different thing to extreme poverty but that doesn't make it unimportant. I agree that access to i-pods is not a very good measure of poverty levels but even if a family can afford expensive presents as a one-off at Christmas, that doesn't mean they can afford adequate housing - which is much more relevant measure. Even if the people on £100 a week spent nothing at all on Christmas presents, that saving wouldn't bridge the gap between renting a two-bedroom flat and renting a four-bedroom house for a year (or, in fact, a month). But we do have extreme poverty, too.

 

Funny you should mention housing because there was an article on this subject on the next page. Barnados is running a photo project showing poverty in Britain. The first picture shown said 'cramped bedroom with few precious possesions' and it was less cramped than my brothers had to endure (three boys in a single bedroom). The second showed a room with no plaster on concrete walls. This was exactly the same as my flat when I moved in but thanks to BandQ value wallpaper and a bit of plaster we soon patched it up at very little cost. If somebody can't do these basic things because they're an alcoholic and every last penny goes on booze or they just don't care, it is deprivation of a different type rather than actual fiscal poverty. jude "Cacoethes scribendi" http://www.judesworld.net

 

No, it's not, because someone who's got the money wouldn't expect to have to do basic decorating themselves - and if they're not the landlord there's no reason why they should. And I don't think the fact that people have lived in cramped conditions in the past is argument in favour of it now. Bad housing is an example of fiscal poverty because it's a situation that you wouldn't choose if you had the money.

 

I think I can sniff the hoary old 'the middle class are the new underclass' trope here. Being cash flow poor doesn't necessarily mean that you are really poor. You may be paying a mortgage, paying insurance, putting cash into savings, pensions, paying school fees etc. This makes you secure in the medium to long term, but you and your children are in essence waiting for the short-term frugality to pay off. This does not make you poor, you are simply putting off material comforts for an investment in the future. People who really are poor don't really have enough money to invest in the future, hence the fact they spend more on Christmas. As David points out above, there's a big gap between being able to buy your kid an i-pod and being able to secure their future, or have an income that allows you to buy rather than rent. It's quite reasonable to try to have the best in the immediate term if you know that penny pinching will, in the long term, make no difference to your situation because you are not simply drawing from the reassurance of a future store of happiness. Cheers, Mark

 

as has already been said, being awash with consumer goods doesn't mean your life is any better/richer. Capitalism has this annoying trait of making things affordable even to those on the lower salary scales, and marketing does a great job of making us think we need these things. My god, the new iPhone advert "How did we survive without mobile internet?" Uhm.... It also allows people, and those horrible middle class sociologists, to point and say we're so much better off than we were in the past. Oh yeah...Wanna swap places Prof? I thought not. Playstation 3 for Christmas anyone? Bah.
Maybe I've had a skewed experience, but it's 'those horrible middle class sociologist' that are most likely to say that we should knock it over, burn it down and kick it 'til it breaks. Maybe I just knew the radical ones. Cheers, Mark

 

As well as being from a poor home (it was a lack of cash not a cash flow problem in our case), I was still poor as an adult because I had to do basic decorating myself. Sadly, my landlord, Southwark Council didn't share the opinion that there's no reason why I should. I am not really poor because I knew that if my disability improved (which it has) even though I was as low as one could possibly go (career gone, renting a flat on the estate, no pension, no savings, debts to the eyes and considering bankruptcy) I could get up again because of my education and work experience and that's what has happened. Which brings me back again, it isn't money that's the problem, it's the lack of educational opportunities and other points on the index of deprivation. I think people do need helping but not with more money directly in their hands but by increasing drug/alcohol rehabilitation places (of which there is a chronic shortage) and projects like the one on our estate that have helped many people back to work or our estate homework club is another example of a successful project. jude "Cacoethes scribendi" http://www.judesworld.net

 

Jude, Your position expressed above is New Labour(as opposed to Old Labour)'s entire economic policy in a few sentences. I don't entirely disagree with the 'hand-up not a hand-out' position in principle. There's a few problems with it, though. One is that - in the case of people facing multiple difficulties - the 'hand-up' proposals such as those advocated by John Bird of TBI would actually cost a lot more in the short term than the current hand-out measures. Another problem is that some people - for various reasons - are never going to be economically successful and, in my view, should not be condemned to a crap life because of this. Finally, linked to that but more contentious, is that the economic is system is structured in such a way as to condemn a significant percentage of the population to relative poverty even if they're working hard in full time jobs.

 

"Finally, linked to that but more contentious, is that the economic is system is structured in such a way as to condemn a significant percentage of the population to relative poverty even if they're working hard in full time jobs." Socialist theory 101 Buk; shouldn't be contentious, it's bloody obvious.
I know. It's contentious in that Jude won't agree and she's more representative of mainstream opinion in the UK than me.

 

We were looking at Rawls a few weeks ago and I pretty much agreed with his 'Justice as Fairness' theory. And New Labour is very Rawlsian. But we agreed that it is a 'myth of opportunity'. Still, I felt that working as hard as we can towards an equality of opportunity, flawed as it will always be , is much preferable to the equality of outcome theory, which mainstream opinion in the UK including mine find objectionable. But nobody should be condemned to an utterly crap life. But I think we need better measures of what is really crap. jude

 

I don't really know what you mean by "mainstream opinion" Jude, perhaps the discourse of the powerful. I believe that equality of outcome barely even registers on the radar of public debate; when the idea is presented it is as a caricature, the sort of Cold War mythology we were exposed to as children, kind of "oh well if that's the kind of equality you're after you must be in favour of Soviet Communism and look how that ended up." In fact the ideals of the National Health Service and of universal benefits are both examples of a limited equality of outcomes. For me equality of opportunity is at best naive and flawed, at worst positively cynical, a convenient myth for the champions of profound inequality. Am I not my brother's keeper?
I wasn't exactly saying I think most people find equality of outcome objectionable. You get a lot of opinion polls saying stuff like this: http://www.guardian.co.uk/guardianpolitics/story/0,,2170699,00.html But there's a difference between believing in a more equal sharing of the burden of maintaining the kind of economic system we have, and a believe that the fundamental aims of our current economic policies are wrong - and that greater equality of wealth and power is a good thing in itself.

 

"But I think we need better measures of what is really crap." This thread. :P Oh dear! I think I ruptured my pomposity.

~It's a maze for rats to try, it's a race for rats to die.~

I am surprised by the results of that poll! Although (except for the short time I worked for the FT) I have often wondered why the vast majority of my family, friends and colleagues hold views that are diametrically opposed to my own. jude "Cacoethes scribendi" http://www.judesworld.net

 

I have just started reading a book about status anxiety by Alain de Botton, it begins with a very persuasive argument about the nature of poverty. I recommend it to everyone interested in the experience and reality of deprivation.
I will do... I like Alain de Botton (and recently enjoyed the 'The Consolations of Philosophy' which is very well written). I have never disputed the reality of domestic deprivation, I just don't believe that surface level equitable redistribution of wealth is the most fair or effective solution. I am always willing to take on board arguments, theories and evidence against this. jude "Cacoethes scribendi" http://www.judesworld.net

 

It is a deprivation and a poverty for people to feel they cannot do anything for themselves or think or create for themselves.That everything has to be given to them.It is like children who are "bored".The best thing to say is "great"now you have a chance to work out a solution.There is grumbling ,there is whining , but eventually something comes up.My daughter recently made a very fine dragon out of a satsuma peel.nest, fire breath and all.Imagination and self reliance and vision can be taught and valued.Socialism doesn't seem to do this at all.Being happy involves far more than just the latest gadget.

 

When you say with all confidence that "socialism" does or does not do this or that Camilla I wonder which "socialism" you are talking about. To be honest you make yourself sound like the opinion writers in the Daily Express, as if you accept the idea that what happened in the Soviet Union was socialism. I need to remind you of two things: for many millions of people now and in the past capitalism has entirely failed to deliver the opportunity to do any more than fight for every mouthful of food and for the crudest of shelters - it is hard to fulfill one's human potential when one's stomach is empty; secondly very many socialists have been very much concerned with self-reliance and freeing the human imagination. You may well not know that many socialists and trade unionists were opposed to the introduction of national insurance because of the detrimental effects it might have on working class organisation and self-reliance. I consider myself a kind of socialist and I consider state welfare to be a blight on people's lives, a poor substitute for freedom and equality.
I don't agree that state welfare is a blight on people's lives. I think broadly social democratic systems have proved to be the least worst option out the various approaches than have been tried over the last 100 year or so. I do agree, though, that safety net benefits along the lines of the current UK system are nothing to do with socialism. They're there to make capitalism more efficient by making it more bearable for those who don't do very well out of it. "secondly very many socialists have been very much concerned with self-reliance and freeing the human imagination." I also agree with this. English socialism in particular has a strong libertarian anti-government history going back hundreds of years. I'd also argue that you generally needed plenty of "imagination and self-reliance" to stick life in the Soviet Union.

 

"I'd also argue that you generally needed plenty of "imagination and self-reliance" to stick life in the Soviet Union." LOL! Absolutely Buk.
I agree that the UK system is humane on the whole.But I worked for a lot of years with people whose only creativity was around how to screw more out of the system. Or if not the system they would go "shopping"(shoplifting) to fund a drug habit.There was no room in it all somehow for them imagine how to really change their lives or make them better in small ways. They spent a fortune on vastly expensive clothes and toys for the kids.Everything was materialistic yet unsatisfying. I'm sure there are plenty of people who can address ways of helping people out of the poverty trap better than I can.I still think that we can encourage everyone to value imagination, problem solving ,and creativity more than we do.At one point I taught nurses on a cardiac course.They were all Sisters (and me early 20s)and fairly tough cookies "Oh we know all about child development."So I posed the question"You are specialing a child in an isolation cubicle for 8 hours and have only what is in the room. List what you would do to entertain the child between obs" They looked thoughtful actually newpaper paper chains made with a jolly parent and a bit of glitter is probably a lot nicer than heres an ipod now go away from a grim one.I look forward to "Ballet Shoes" on Boxing Day.It is full of generosity and all round niceness.

 

Yes Camilla, a great present won't make up for a crap parent, but you seem to be infering the more expensive the present, the worse the parent. Can you spot the flaw? Not everyone that wants to give their kids material comforts at Christmas is a complete turd. I agree that the glossy pleasures of consumption probably can't repair a deeper malaise, but you're making the classic mistake of attacking the people, not the situation. People who have problems tend not to be saint-like in their ability to transcend the world around them and rise, angelic, into a universe of pure love and spiritual satisfaction. That's why they have problems. When presented with an overwhelming sea of images of material, romantic, family satisfcation which appears to be achievable by handing over the cash, most of us are seduced. If you say that you aren't; that you aren't ever even slightly convince by an advert or slightly interested in the contents of another person's house, wardrobe or garage, I'll say that you lie to make a point. Some of our greatest minds are involved in the process of selling us things. Even the most staunch elective non-consumer amongst us sometimes thinks 'I bet my legs would look good in those trousers' or 'Are those crow's feet?' or 'I wish my computer was faster'. People who aren't generally having a good time of things are even more susceptible to this romance; uniquely placed to hear the siren call more loudly than others. If you have less of a chance to be happy all logic in late capitalism dictates that you should buy happy, because you as a consumer get what you pay for. Cheers, Mark

 

I think it is possible not to be entirely sucked in by "buying happiness" and to encourage such capacity in ones children.There are always going to be people who are prettier,richer,smarter,and faster than oneself and to allow unchecked envy is a a hiding to misery.One lives then in the world endlessly dissatisfied. Things themselves expensive or not are less important than the relationships one has or the richness of ones internal world.

 

Alain de Botton's book on Philosophy I mentioned has a good chapter on why we strain after material things even though they won't make us happy. But I agree with Mark, many people are not capable or perhaps inclined to reach the lofty philosophical muses and happiness of Diogenes in his barrel. However, I remain attached to my belief that the problem is more mental, educational and perhaps emotional poverty rather than immediate fiscal poverty and I think this is what Camilla is driving at. I acknowledge that lack of money, especially going back one or two generations was the cradle of these other maladies and whilst alcoholism is a disease that has no respect for social background, statistics indicate that a middle class professional has a higher chance of recovery than somebody of a low social background. And so I do think the 'hand-up' rather than hand out tactic of new labour is the best method of intervention. jude "Cacoethes scribendi" http://www.judesworld.net

 

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