The dreaded 'Moderator'
I'm sorry in advance if this question has been covered in other threads, but I don't get the time to read them all so I have to dip in and out.
I'm just curious about the fear of being moderated. I'm not sure that the principle of free speech is in danger by having someone from ABCtales check postings for personal criticism. If it's there, then surely a private email from Emily or Mark just asking politely to tone it down isn't so bad.
I know how easy it is to upset people via e-mail (I did it myself with 'dogplop') whether it's inadvertant or deliberate.
We're all 'moderated' to some extent in our lives - even (especially?) as writers; how many competitions do we see that state there should be no bad language or sex in stories? (I'd be up @!#$ street without bastard waders if I couldn't use bad language.)
As a community, which I hope we are, there has to be a line drawn which is agreed by common concensus regarding personal comments. In an ideal world, that line would be drawn by common sense and not need formalised rules, but some of the posts I've read seem, to me anyway, too personal. I'm not sure the argument about subjectivity that Mark put forward convinces me greatly. 'What you see is what we are' says Mark.... I'd like to believe that what we see is us striving for something better. We're adults in an adult world, not children in a playground. We can be funny without being snide (just dip into the stories on the site), we can be critical without being personal, and we can let the 'prats' know they're being prats without becoming 'prats' ourselves.
I believe in free speech. I believe in personal freedom. I believe these rights should be fought for and defended... but should my freedom to speak my mind allow me to call another contributor a 'naughty' name? Or ridicule them? I'm involved in mental health in the community and I encourage the people I know to express themselves in poetry. Having sent some of those people to this site, I would hate to see any of them being involved in one of the personal 'discussions'.
Sometimes we think we know 'who can take it' and who can't. Let me stress - sat behind a pc on our own, none of us know 'who can take it' and who can't. We only learn that the hard way. The anonymity of the internet can be a wonderful thing, but let's not forget how dangerous it can be. The people who run a site do have some responsibility as to the content of that site, whether we like that idea or not. No-one wants heavy censorship - certainly not me, but I do want to feel comfortable when I log on that the contributors to the site value each other.
Or am I just an over-sensitive wuss?
(I'm just thinking in print here, but I wonder how many contributors would vote for some kind of gentle 'nannying' when a post is personal. Maybe there's a way of polling the people online - we have an election coming up after all. Or should we make the discussion threads available to people only after they've logged on - I'm not sure whether that would make much difference overall, but it's just a suggestion.)
Sorry for going on a bit (... a bit???) but I'd love to know the ratio between 'non-moderated' and 'moderated' ABCtalers. Surely a vote on the front page (not here in threads) would tell us one way or the other. You have the facility to know when we try to vote for ourselves so fixing the vote shouldn't be a problem. As Mark said, we live in a democracy.
Thanks for listening.