Dementia
By J.E.Giffard
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The Stockholm Concert Hall was packed with the leading figures in the world of science, medicine and the arts.
The president of the Nobel Prize committee mounted the rostrum and gazed around the sea of faces, all waiting eagerly to discover on whom the honours had been bestowed this year.
After presenting the awards in several categories, the president said, 'The next award is the Nobel Prize for Medicine. There have been a number of worthy candidates this year but, after careful consideration, the committee has awarded the gold medal to Professor James Carstairs, PhD, F.M.B.S(Oxon) MB Chem, B Med MD, professor of Clinical Neurology, for his pioneering work in the field of Alzheimers Disease and other forms of dementia.
The whole world owes a debt of gratitude to the professor for his untiring efforts resulting in a much wider knowledge of this subject. His research has led to a more effective form of treatment with a marked increase of quality of life for sufferers. While, unfortunately, we still cannot cure dementia, many patients have been able to keep the more serious effects at bay for much longer.
To tumultuous applause,Professor Carstairs walked forward to receive his accolade and the large gold medal embossed with the head of Alfred Nobel.
It was 7 a.m.he had lain twisting and turning all night. He had tried hard to get to the commode but his legs just would not function.. Try as he might he could just not control his bodily functions and had lain for hours in the results of his incontinence.
He knew that it would soon be time for the carers to arrive. He never knew who they might be. There were so many different ones. He hoped it might be Pat and Mary for they had been kind and considerate to him, whereas so many had treated him with imdifference or even, sometimes, open hostility.
He could hear them talking as they opened the door. It was not Pat or Mary. He did not know them.
'Oh what a stink Mavis' Come on Gramps. Let's see what you have been up to.' She opened the bedroom door, 'Oh Cripes! the buggers shit himself. You dirty old man. Why couldn't you use the commode or pull the cord for the night staff.
He looked up at the cord. The red light was still on. Needless to say, nobody had responded.
Donning plastic aprons and rubber gloves, they proceeded to strip him of his soiiled pyjamas.
'I can't stand the smell Mavis' said Lilly the other carer. She threw open the bedroom window letting in a blast of icy cold air. He stood naked and shivering violently with cold.
While Lilly stripped the sheets, Mavis took him through to the shower room where she sat him on a stool. As usual the water was only luke- warm. She lathered him with antiseptic soap which got into his eyes and mouth and vented her anger on him by rubbing him down roughly with a hairy towel.
' I haven't got time to shave you today. Still it won't matter, no-one will see you. What do you want for your breakfast?'
'Can I have a scrambled egg.?'
'Oh! I haven't got time for that. I've got Mrs Brown in ten minutes time. You will have to make do with cornflakes'.
Leaving him shivering in the damp shower she went to fetch his wheelchair. As she was swinging it round, her arm brushed against something hanging on the wall which came to earth with a crash and a splintering of glass.
'What have you broken?' said Lilly , 'Is it a picture?'
'No.. It looks like a medal off some sorts. It's probably something to do with the war.'
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Constant and present loving
Constant and present loving care is so important, whatever likelihood of improvements in prevention or treatment. There will always be need of caring in old age. Caring by relatives or a well-run happy Care Home seems so much more open to scrutiny and less lonely than haphazard trying to send carers in to individual homes, but it seems less financially possible now. Also some elderly people are fearful that they will regret any move.
The last sentence brings focus on the real person he is, and has been, for those who will think. Rhiannon
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This packs a real punch, and
This packs a real punch, and I wish it were only fiction, but sadly we know that it is not. Very well observed piece.
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A lot of Abcwriters have
A lot of Abcwriters have tackled this theme and IMO yours is one of the better efforts. I like how I don't know if the professor is now the sad old man with the rotten carers or if they are two different people. Seems to mirror dementia.
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If this sad and depressing
If this sad and depressing incident has not been flagged up with the CQC it needs to done asap
I have come across this many times and action has been taken. Joint visit with inspectors.
I shall stop before I start to utter expletives
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This rings horribly true. My
This rings horribly true. My Dad was in a private care home and it was terrible. So much money had been spent on the marble floor of the foyer and the doors to each floor all had password numbers to get in, like an airlock on a submarine. But there were not enough people working there. Even if they had been kind, and I think some of the students were, they could not answer all the cries for help, or explanation. I wish I could have looked after my Dad but he didn't want to be looked after. When I visited him there to see if he would come to live with us up here, he just wanted to go home, and grabbed my wrist, dragged me up and down the corridors with all these people wailing from their open doored rooms, layer on layer of desolation and powerless anger. In the end he dragged me into the canteen and a harrassed person kindly leant me her mobile as mine didn't have a signal, and when my Dad stopped moving for a bit I called my brother who picked me up. He would not let go of me, and I missed the last bus. I feel so guilty I could not look after him, he felt I had betrayed him. He was so unhappy there. Fortunately a better place opened nearby but by then he had given up, stopped being able to speak. He looked in every sense like someone in a concentration camp, so thin, cropped hair and haunted eyes. And these were expensive places
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A very moving piece which
A very moving piece which shines a spotlight on some very uncomfortable truths. I wish I had the faith and experience of torscot's CQC reporting but mine does not bear any resemblance to that.
One small typo here :
' .. so many had treated him with imdifference'
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