Seven Husbands.

There are diamonds who walk this earth, who are pure and honest as the day is long. Gems, who will never be famous, unknown to the world at large. They are Men that I know, and most of them I have known most of my life or at least half of my life. Trustworthy, honest Men. I see actors on telly and I think, I really like them they always play the nice guy, but in reality, I don’t know them, and for most of them, they are actors, they are doing a good job, for myself and others around the world to like them and their personality.

But these Men that I will mention, they are not actors, they are genuine, kind, everything that is good.

My title is Seven Husbands, but in the real world, not everyone gets married, or if they do, they don’t always stay married, through no fault of their own, they are the innocent party.

The first man, I want to write about, I’ve known him about thirty years. When I first met him, he was poorly. He told me, later when he was well, “My cat and dog (that is their names), kept me alive, for they needed looking after each day, without them, I would have given up and died.”  I’m glad he didn’t die, for he was the most kindest, hardworking man I had ever met. His first wife had treated him awful and his second wife too.  

The second man, he isn’t married, he has children, all lovely and his first girlfriend, everyone loved her, people all thought they would marry but they didn’t, I don’t think he wanted to. But they remained friends. She has never married. This man, is incredible, some people, have said, “You should tell the person what you think of them while they are alive, and not at their funeral.” That is SO true, at everyone’s funeral, only nice things are said about them, even when they were a terror! But this Man, WOW! Whatever it is, he gets the job done! He fights for you, he fights for his rights, he helps the weak, he passes on his strength, he is relentless. He has a strong mind, and uses’ it for Good! He is Very knowledgeable; he is a perfectionist! I think that can be a ‘curse,’ he has an amazing mind. He is an example, of ‘Actions speak louder than words.’ He is Very disciplined. I could go on and on, but I will stop there.

The next lovely Man is a widower. Him and his wife, they were true soulmates. Perfect for each other. Both in their own rights, lovely souls as individuals, and together they made a great team. Their children, well adjusted and just like them.  We were all devastated when his lovely wife died. I don’t see him now, but some of the other Men I know, three of them meet up with him for breakfast, about every three months, which is lovely, giving him enough space, and also space to talk.

Another man I know, I have known him decades, from when he was young, he has since got married to a lovely, wonderful woman, they have sweet kids. All of them in this family is successful, every single member of that family. This Man, works hard, his home is lovely, he keeps on top of any repairs, and any ideas, for change around the house is done, with both of them in agreement. Their house is spic and span. They are a lovely Couple.

The next man, I have known him since he was a baby!  All his life he has been lovely. Where do I start. He is a lovely Man, inside and out. He is talented his lovely wife is talented and his kids, they too are all very talented. They are the talented family. I respect him SO much.

Another Man I know, he is like Marmite, for those who know him. I think he is fantastic, he has had a difficult life, never married, he has a long-term girlfriend, they live together, he is faithful to her and she to him, but I wish he was not with her, as I don’t think she is good for him. Like I said, he is faithful to her. He will never leave her. I respect him and he respects me. We get on great. He has the loveliest heart. For him, I Wish him the Very Best in life and the future.

I could mention many more gems who walk on this planet, I will mention another Man. A great human being, he met a lovely girl, they got married, it was a lovely ‘chilled’ wedding. Soon she left him!! We were all shocked. He was gutted. He never remarried, but it didn’t leave him bitter. He always has a friendly smile on his face. He is lovely to be around.  

To the one Man in this story, rest in peace. xXx