People Who Want The Bullies To Win.

People Who Want The Bullies To Win.
This is a serious social issue that is getting me down.  But I feel I have to get it from my chest. Sorry. 
I think it is bad thing that most people support the bully.
I was bullied at school, and also in adult life. I always thought the people who bullied me would feel guilty. That they would beg me for forgiveness. The reality is they all still hate me, and they still feel that they are right for bullying me.

But what really hurt me, was that I thought my friends would stick by me.
In reality most of my friends turned to the side of the bullies.

The most horrifying thing I have discovered is that;
Most people seem to support the bully over the victim.
Most people seem to be either the bully or they support the bully. They want to be the bad guy. They want the bad guy to win.
Loads of women boast of fancying bullies, as if it is something to be proud of.
While most of the men seem to be either bullies or people who want the bully to win.

When you look at Hollywood movies you would think most people want the victim to win.
But in reality the gut wrenching horrifying discovery for me is simply most people WANT the bully to win, and the victim to lose.
They want the bully to get the top jobs, and the victim to lose and be humiliated.
Most people hate the victims of bullying more than the bully.
I remember going on a jobs course and one tutor said that employers do not care about what qualifications you get, or how hard you work, they just care that there is not a weirdo working for them.

Well I had been called a weird guy from adulthood. So this did nothing for my confidence.
Most people seem to support the bully, and hate the weird guy.
In reality, in the real World. The bully is supported by the majority. In the same way a town of racists support the racist over their victim. A town of homophobes support the homophobe over the gay victim.
When you try and get a job as a weirdo, people seem to hate you. It seems to be what most people hate most.
As a weirdo, this is tough.
And no matter what I do people see me as weird. No matter how normal or quiet, or loud it does not make any difference.
I was once told by one bully, that I was so normal that I was weird. What chance do I have? I tried being quiet, and people would say who is that weird shy guy.

No matter what I do, the majority see me as weird, and deserving to be bullied.

Even when I behave normally people think I am a weird.
I do not walk around dressed as a town crier, or talk in a sci fi language, or dress in pink, or purple clothes, or dress as a cosplay character. I do not deliberately behave weirdly, but It makes no difference. The bullies hate me and see me as weird. End of story.
When I look back at school, I remember three times when I fought back against a bully and other kids gathered round and shouted in support of my bully.
They just automatically supported the bully. I remember one kid who bullied me just jumped on me and pushed me against the wall. So I pushed him back, then some horrible school girl came over and made fun of the way I was pushing back. And the other kids were chanting out the name of my bully.
This sort of thing had a profound impact on me. It made me think most people support the bully.
And people would refuse to sit by me. Looking at me like I was a disease.
Women would shiver, men would call me insults.

In my view it is creepy, warped, twisted, depraved, nasty, cruel, evil, narcissistic, trite and selfish to support the bully.

The thing is though it does not change in adult life.
People still want the bully to win, because they have devoted their support to the bully.
They support the bully, they care for the bully, they empathise with the bully.
Even if they punish the bully for bullying, they feel guilty about punishing the bully. But not guilty about hating the victim of the bullying.
I have never used prostitutes. But I saw a TV show about prostitutes. And one horrifying thing stood out for me. One of the prostitutes said they wanted a tough nasty pimp rather than a nice pimp, because the nasty pimp would make them work harder and so they would earn more money. This seems to be the case for most adults in all lines of work.
People seem to want tough nasty men to win, to make them work harder and earn more money.
The bad guys win, because weak minded people want the bad guy to win.
When I was growing up into adulthood I found out people bullied me because they saw me as creepy, dumb, and a weirdo.
I always had the childish idea that people would grow up and change. But no people do not change. The people who bullied me at school, because they saw me as creepy, weird or dumb. They still hate me, with more contempt, hatred, passion and fury than I could ever imagine. If I fight back they hate me. If I try to make friends with them, they hate me. It is ruthless, relentless, and remorseless hatred.
The majority of people are on the side of evil when it comes to bullying.
You get cocky bad boy men wanting the bully to win. You get smug pro bully women wanting the bully to win, and thinking it makes them profound to support bullies.