Ambiguity

Every person in this world is ambiguous. Because there are a lot of experiences, lessons and knowledges that create them from time to time. A person won't remain the same person. S/he continually changes.

In relationships; family, friends, boyfriends/girlfriends should let them learn individuality. No domination towards the person. Just look at a mother raising her child. She watches her child grows. Sometimes the child acted harshly towards the mother but s/he also acted kind and loving towards the mother. The truth is, we never really know a person. Even when they are the closest to us and the same goes in vice versa. The curiosity in relationships maintains the bonding. 

We always thought that our close people shares all their secrets with us. But there is always a secret. Even to the littlest things. Their thoughts, their nightmares. But should we allow this to break our relationships/bond? No. Don't force anyone to reveal all their secrets. They would if they think it should. Let them have the trust towards their keep, let them have the trust towards themselves. And put your trust towards them because you know they could make it through. Make it happen through prayers. Humans are always limited. God is beyond everything. Let God do the work. It's His professions. And so do trust God too.

Even when we already see their darkest side but that doesn't tell us enough of their future darkside. And so they remain ambiguous, we remain curious which what makes the relationship interesting. That is the most genuine part in relationships and also in knowing/exploring yourself. 

We tend to claim that we know a person through the closest relationships that we have with them. The truth is, we only know their present journey and their present self.