Reminders

Everyone needs reminders. Because it is equal to human's need like affections. And reminders ARE affections. Sometimes, reminders look harsh on some people. But reminders like these should have triggered our realisation that actually, we need them when our hearts are as hard as stone, when the hearts fulled of black spots. 

Sometimes, the fault is ours. All reminders are good, especially when it is related to us. Calm your heart, so that you stay calm in the soul, and for that the mind is not stirred by the thoughts which are not good. Then, when you are wholely at the state of tranquility, slowly accept their advices and reminders. 

Understand the notion of the good, the main point of what they are trying to convey. Pray for your sick heart, so that Allah ease your heart, so that Allah open up your heart, so that Allah may allow you to receive such advice. Comprehend the advice with good impressions. Because whatever advice they give, without realising it, it is exactly something that we need to listen as it is the missing puzzle in your life at that moment. 

Feel the love of God so 

that you could receive criticism well with full of sincerity. Do place your heart to the state where it feels at home. Put your heart the nearest to God. Although you feel hurt to hit your heart with these true reminders, let it be. Be thankful when you feel hurt. Because at that time, the presence of that lightning strikes to help washing the impurities in your heart away.