Paranoia?

thanks a lot 'M'. You hit the nail on the proverbial head (re: change). It WAS actually about my opinion and someone else's ego preventing them having any kind of respect for it; even though the opinion was positive. It is as if I was not qualified to offer and opinion because, be it good or bad; it was irrelevant. Therefore to prevent self confidence being compromised - it may be safer to keep opinions to one's self. I am not advocating this sentiment; it was just offered as ONE solution. your comments greatly appreciated Regards...Chris.