BEAUTIFUL.
By Maxine Jasmin-Green
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I have known her since she was a baby. I first held her when she was a week old. Even then, she was SO beautiful, I remember thinking If I ever have kids, I hope they are as beautiful as she is.
She had beautiful skin, and beautiful hair, the Italians, who met her, my friends, declared, “She’s Italian, look at her hair and her skin.” But she was not Italian.
Her beautiful hair grew and grew, until it was past her waist. She was loved by all who knew her. Then she fell in love, and had a child. Her dad didn’t like him, he seemed to be in the wrong crowd.
Years past and then she had more kids. She was still beautiful, her kids were just like her, beautiful. Her own dad didn’t like him either.
Then recently, if found out through a trusted source, that he has been violent to her all of the time. Their kids have seen, his violence to their Mum, all of their young lives. It’s SO unfair!
The last time, that he attacked her, she had to go to hospital to get stitches. What did she tell the doctor and the nurses? “I was in a fight up town, this is how I ended up like this.”
That was bad enough, but worse still, they believed her! But it is not true. The ‘powerful’ man has controlled her for most of her life! This strong woman is now weak. She feels she has no worth.
It makes the few of us who really know, angry! But what can we do? She defends him. He thinks he is somebody, but he is nothing!
Some want to hurt him, but they would get into Trouble. It is so unfair, why are some people so cruel?
I hope it is not too late for her kids? They need help and their Mum too. How will it all end? Many women are killed each week, I really hope she is not one of them.
She needs to leave him, to pluck up the courage and just go! Her kids deserve better, she is too good for him. I wished she had never met him.
From being beautiful, she is now battered!
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This is such a sad story
This is such a sad story Maxine. I hope your friend eventually manages to find a way of leaving
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This is awful Maxine. She
This is awful Maxine. She needs to get in contact with someone trusting who can take her to a womens refuge. I myself was in a bad marriage once, and my kind health visitor took me to a refuge, it was the best move I ever made, because it's a safe house which nobody knows about, it helped me become strong again and I made some very good friends in there who helped me too.
The worst thing she can do is stay, and she should get custody of the children and get one parent benefit. She will learn to stand on her own, with the help of the other women.
I hope and wish that she finds happiness like I did.
Jenny.
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