believer’s death guilt

when a loved one dies
whilst wallowing in that
savage cesspool of religious
belief---whatever batch it
might be---there may very well
be those especial cretins who
see fit to condemn the amount
of time spent by those grieving
(found to be doing so
within the very same cage as
their fellow prisoners of said
cesspool in question) to be
TOO LONG a period of time
&
when it gets pointed out from
the outside by a non-believer in
said stupidity that they are being
maliciously condemned
by the constituents of said
stupidity, the grieving loved ones are
automatically dually condemned---
1) for not believing (or even questioning
the motives thereof) that the fictitious
deity will come to the rescue,
“reincarnating” or bringing said
dead loved one to “a better place” &
2) for being supported in a way
by the humanism found in the
non-believer, who due to the fact
that they understand that said
loved one is NEVER coming back,
nor are they going to ANY PLACE
beyond the decomposition in the
ground or the urn in which their
ashes are placed, are much more apt
to see the need to handle such an
individual with MORE compassion &
not LESS.

is it not bad enough that one dies in a
world of things “created” to kill them
by any number of fictitious deities?
must there be guilt piled on the consciences
of the living who still believe all the
absurdity of religion, by their
co-conspirators?

do you believers in all these fairytales
ever get sick of the relentless beatings?