Chemo 6
By jeand
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Chemo 6
This has been a rest week for me. The chemo nurses decided that I needed a week off chemo, due to my very tough week of side effects. Tomorrow I go to my consultant’s rooms to see if I can get the dose put back to normal. If not, I will have to put up with the increase, but might need to get the dose only every other week.
My worry this week was about the forthcoming visit of the Stoma nurse. She is very nice and had lots of helpful advice when I saw her a month ago. I haven’t had any problems with my stoma, so you ask, why were you worried. I decided that she was not the real deal. She represents an American company, and I was sure my hospital would not choose to support foreign companies over British ones. I had been getting my stoma replacements from a company which I contact by a phone number the hospital gave me. That phone number was different from the one the new company provided. So in my paranoid mood, I decided that I had to tell her that I didn’t want her company to deal with me, and even though I had signed a contract with her last month, I wanted to be loyal to my hospital’s wishes.
I practiced my speech for a long time before she was due yesterday. When she came to the door, all friendly and pleased to see me, I said I needed to talk to her. So when she was sat down, I started my prepared speech. “I must have been misinformed when I saw you last week, as I thought you were representing my hospital group.”
“I do,” she said.
“Oh, that’s good,” I said, suddenly wondering what to say next.
“But your phone number is different from the one I was given by them.”
“Because the hospital want the best service, they buy in services, and we are one of those chosen to deal with the very large group of stoma users in this area.”
So I had to believe her, and tried to be friendly and pleasant for the rest of her visit. I’m pleased she’s Kosher, as I really like her. She made an appointment to see me in two months, so I guess that is that.
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I hope the worry has been
I hope the worry has been taken away and you can find some much needed peace Jean.
Jenny.
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You shouldn't have had to
You shouldn't have had to worry about things like that at all - not when you're supposed to be resting after a tough week. How annoying for you. Glad it was resolved in the end though., and good luck with your appointment Jean
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Glad you've had this quieter
Glad you've had this quieter week. The interweaving of private, NHS, and international companies can become very complex these days it seems. Glad you can keep 'touching base' with us! Rhiannon
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Hope the rest week's gone
Hope the rest week's gone well. Sounds like lots to think about and deal with. Take care of yourself, Jean. Paul x
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we're good at building
we're good at building oursleves up and knocking ourselves down. The ethical worry of non-NHS NHS is a worry. But you've got enough to worry about.
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Hi Jean
Hi Jean
Thanks for the update.
Glad you managed to sort out your worries re the stoma nurse. It seems much of the NHS seems to be farmed out to private companies. My neighbour had a cataract op on the NHS at a private hospital. She found the treatment good but the waiting time for treatment whilst in the hospital was very stressful.
Hope your next chemo treatment is not too unpleasant.
Take care.
Lindyx
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Jean what can I say. Only
Jean what can I say. Only that I am glad that you are alive and posting. Love xx Ray
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Glad to hear you're back to
Glad to hear you're back to your normal dose, and feeling a bit better. It's true, you never know who's doing what/supplying what/generally got their finger in the service provision these days, and I'm so impressed by you wanting to stick to your principles. I hope you continue to feel a bit better.
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